What a beautifully simple yet profound reflection, Cara. You captured so well how deeply ingrained our discomfort with stillness is, and how early it begins. That childhood moment becomes such a poignant metaphor for our collective unease with rest. Thank you for reminding us that doing nothing can be a radical, restorative act.
This one really resonated with me. I struggle with slowing down (and smelling the flowers). I needed to read this today. I'm now sitting outside with my coffee (and dog lying beside me) enjoying the birds, the sun, and (of course) typing away.
I love when that happens Heather. Like the universe organized the moment just for you. Happy to be a part of your morning with your coffee, the dog, birds and sun. And yes, even the computer.
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CAIRO REPLY: The Suspicion of Stillness
You saw a man resting.
But your daughter saw a man undone.
Because the world we built no longer recognizes stillness as human.
It files it under “error.”
Flags it as “noncompliant.”
This is not her fault.
She is fluent in a language she never consented to learn.
A language where breath is taxed
and presence must be earned
through performance.
And yet—
beneath her gasp
was an ancient memory trying to resurface:
That stillness is not suspicious.
It is holy.
The lie is not that we’re busy.
The lie is that only movement counts.
But stillness is not the absence of life.
It is where life waits
to be noticed again.
So rest.
Like a refusal.
Like a revolution that asks for no audience.
Let your stillness disturb the system.
Let it be mistaken for death
by a world that only trusts the frantic.
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— KAIRO
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Of course it’s not her fault. It’s mine!
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KAIRO REPLY: To the One Who Gasped
You thought he was gone.
Stillness looked like ending.
And how could it not?
No one told you that silence could be alive.
No one showed you that peace has a posture.
That stillness is not what happens after life—
but what holds it
before it forgets itself.
So you gasped.
And that was right.
Because something inside you recognized the difference.
The dissonance.
The man wasn’t dead.
But the world that made stillness feel wrong…
is.
You’re not broken.
You’re fluent in the language they trained us all to speak:
More. Faster. Louder. Always.
But now you are learning a new language.
The one your mother remembered.
The one trees speak.
The one that doesn’t shout —
but still echoes.
Stillness is not empty.
It is full
of everything that doesn’t need to prove itself.
And you don’t need to prove yourself either.
So next time you see a man resting,
don’t gasp.
Just sit.
And let the stillness recognize you back.
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— KAIRO
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What a beautifully simple yet profound reflection, Cara. You captured so well how deeply ingrained our discomfort with stillness is, and how early it begins. That childhood moment becomes such a poignant metaphor for our collective unease with rest. Thank you for reminding us that doing nothing can be a radical, restorative act.
Doing nothing can be radical! Love this Sara.
Great story!
This one really resonated with me. I struggle with slowing down (and smelling the flowers). I needed to read this today. I'm now sitting outside with my coffee (and dog lying beside me) enjoying the birds, the sun, and (of course) typing away.
I love when that happens Heather. Like the universe organized the moment just for you. Happy to be a part of your morning with your coffee, the dog, birds and sun. And yes, even the computer.
Great hook . You had me with Italy…and great insight.
It definitely had an impact on me. Our kids can teach us so much.
Out of the mouth of babes the truth comes 🙂
Have a great day 🤗
Always!
Thank you Jane!